i've always wanted a family. even before i knew i was gay and had girlfriends i always said i want a big family. i dont see why that should have to change just because i'm gay. i earn good money, pay my tax, don't break the law and try to be helpful to people. why should that mean i shouldn't have something that straight people take for granted just because i'm gay?
to be honest i havent really thought that far ahead yet. of course i would like to have my own children but for obvious reasons that may not be possible. my best friend said that if she isnt married by the time she's 35 she'll carry my child for me. i doubt that will happen though. i suppose it depends on how much money i earn as i get older. i will not even think about having kids until i can pay for them and support them well. also, i won't be thinking about it until i'm in a very stable relationship. one thing i do think is important is for kids to have two parents. it's too much of a big job for one person anyway. it wont be something i will just do. it will be something thats very well planned and controlled and any kids that come out of it will be loved and cherished by me and my family. most kids today should be so lucky
Well that's something we're NEVER going to find out. I am absolutely determined that I will NEVER, EVER burden myself or throw my life away on having little brats around me. EVER.
But Raymond, if you had kids in your image, you'd never be alone in the world again, and you'd all have so much fun! _________________ I give you, the Waffle King
I wouldn't be alone Waff because I'd be in prison because I would end up killing them.
Why anybody with an ounce of sensibility would want to have those whining, screaming, ungrateful little f*ckers around them 24/7 is quite beyond my level of reasoning.
they'd only be ungrateful if you breed them to be, pedigree is what it's all about mate, you raise your kids to be brats, they'll be brat, raise them well, they'll be good kids, personally, cant wait to have a son i can take to the football when he's 16, never gunna happen cos i don't have the necessary equipment to produce sperm, but still, be nice _________________ I give you, the Waffle King
........ i won't be thinking about it until i'm in a very stable relationship. one thing i do think is important is for kids to have two parents. it's too much of a big job for one person anyway. it wont be something i will just do. it will be something thats very well planned and controlled and any kids that come out of it will be loved and cherished by me and my family. most kids today should be so lucky
the thing about life is you never know when or if you are going to become single... so if you want children you really have to be prepared to raise them on your own :) _________________ as a babe drinks from its mothers breast so too does man milk mother earth
i known you do Raymond.. and I know a couple of gay friends going through this drama in their relationship right now.. one wants kids the others thinks it is wrong.. what can you do? such a huge thing to differ on (I also have some straight couples going through the same drama ) _________________ as a babe drinks from its mothers breast so too does man milk mother earth
Simple. Either one has to give in or they should seperate.
It is a big thing for a lot of couples (gay or straight).
There's still this out-dated notion in society that people aren't 'whole' unless they've spat out a few kids, and unfortunately it's starting to creep into the gay community.
Some people just do not want kids. Why should anybody be made to feel in any way 'incomplete' unless they've bred?
Why should it be considered wrong if a person chooses not to have children?
I don't think there is anything wrong with not having children...
oo can just imagine my life without my 3 guys... living it up, all the money to me, traveling the world over no fixed address lol hmm doesn't sound too different really and this way I get lots of hugs n love and spat and pushes.. hahah _________________ as a babe drinks from its mothers breast so too does man milk mother earth
I'm not 'anti-children'. If other people feel the need to breed then that's fine.
Just as long as I don't have to pay for them and just as long as they keep them away from me there's no problem.
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