As someone who has run many groups concerned with paranormally related subjects over the years there are a few things I need to point out before you start this group.
Let's call a spade a spade. Groups like this attract whack-jobs. They also attract the needy and desperate.
If that's the kind of thing you're going for, fine but I strongly suggest you instigate some kind of filter process to keep the nut-jobs at bay before you allow people in.
Regardless of how 'nice' or 'harmless' they may seem at the start they are always a pain in the arse in the long run.
I hate to have to say it (I don't really) but the kind of people who will find their way to this group will be people who have probably tried a multitude of religions and self help groups, who may be coming from some kind of substance abuse past and are basically looking for something or someone to run their lives for them. KEEP YOUR WITS ABOUT YOU!
I think you need to make the point of your group a lot clearer and include a phone number in the initial advertising rather than just throwing open the doors and seeing who turns up.
Make sure you include the price of any subs in the advertising as some people will argue over a couple of quid if they weren't aware of it.
They will also be expecting refreshments when they arrive so think about tea and coffee.
But basically, unless it's what you're looking for you really don't need some clingy weirdo following you around and ringing you up all the time expecting you to be some kind of guru or life coach - I've been there, and as flattering as it may sound it really is no fun.
Good luck Hobbs. Let me know if there's anything I can help with.
'Course' implies they are going to actually learn something and while I'm sure you will impart many pearls of wisdom upon your subjects, 'course' makes it sound like some kind of academic study group with a recognised award upon completion.
'Limited Period Discussion Group' may work better.
I like the "enquire within" bit. I also take Raymonds points about nut-jobs. Maybe say "self discovery and empowerment" or something like that. It will filter out those who want the answers on a plate.
I like the "enquire within" bit. I also take Raymonds points about nut-jobs. Maybe say "self discovery and empowerment" or something like that. It will filter out those who want the answers on a plate.
The word empowerment always sounds a bit fingers down throat to me.
Yeah. I shuddered as I typed it. Couldn't think of a better word though that everyone understands.
Go with your original words, or just say what it does.
try not to judge the whole thing before it even starts David- it will evolve as the group needs it to _________________ as a babe drinks from its mothers breast so too does man milk mother earth
and what would be wrong with that - maybe Dave needs more socialising :) _________________ as a babe drinks from its mothers breast so too does man milk mother earth
try not to judge the whole thing before it even starts David- it will evolve as the group needs it to
Yes I agree with that evergreen.
Each group will have it's own dynamic and I feel that you have to work within that dynamic even if it means changing from your original concept. _________________ Please visit our main site
Oh I've laughed myself silly reading this one! You two are like Laurel and Hardy!
How did it go, David? Did you get the group up and running? It sounded an interesting idea, but I can't get the vision of Raymond with a lesbian tucked under each arm out of my head!
He is a serial lesbian collector. Never actually been prosecuted for it but has run a bit close to the wind on occasions.
Strange thing about this group thing. It has made me take stock of exactly where i am and what are my motives for starting this group.
Know what. Upon examination I think it is time that I changed what I do and what I try to learn.
Over the years my teacher has gone from mystic/shaman to psychotherapist and I prefer the shaman/mystic.
Twelve years or more I have been with him and I now have to make some pretty tough decisions. I feel that I have ceased to learn. Not his fault but mine.
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