Kas
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rhianWelcome to Ghost Hunters Extraordinaire. 
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rhian
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Thanks and a pleasure to be here.
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swanlady
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Glad to see you found us Rhian.
I,d like everyone to meet Rhiannon.
She is a friend of mine and is having difficulty with spirit at the moment.
I told her to join this forum as she will be taken seriously.
he joined another site with me. but found out that she wasn't taken seriously. In fact, it came to light that apparently she brought the mood in the room down.
I HAVE KNOWN RHIAN FOR OVER TWO YEARS NOW AND I CAN ASSURE EVERYONE THAT SHE DOES,NT BRING A ROOM DOWN AT ALL.
Rhian is a young girl who can hear/see and feel spirit.
And she becomes very afraid by whats happening to her.
She has,nt slept for the past two nights because of something tugging at her bed clothes when she goes to sleep.
I,ll let Rhian tell you all whats been happening to her.
But at the moment, she is very afraid. she does,nt want spirit around her but they are there anyway.
I asked Rhian to join here as i trust Raymond and David and hope that they can help Rhian.
This is a photo of Rhian.
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swanlady
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| swanlady wrote: | Glad to see you found us Rhian.
I,d like everyone to meet Rhiannon.
She is a friend of mine and is having difficulty with spirit at the moment.
I told her to join this forum as she will be taken seriously.
he joined another site with me. but found out that she was ,nt taken seriously. In fact, it came to light that apparently she brough the mood in the room down.
I HAVE KNOWN RHIAN FOR OVER TWO YEARS NOW AND I CAN ASSURE EVERYONE THAT SHE DOES,NT BRING A ROOM DOWN AT ALL.
Rhian is a young girl who can hear/see and feel spirit.
And she becomes very afraid by whats happening to her.
She has,nt slept for the past two nights because of something tugging at her bed clothes when she goes to sleep.
I,ll let Rhian tell you all whats been happening to her.
But at the moment, she is very afraid. she does,nt want spirit around her but they are there anyway.
I asked Rhian to join here as i trust Raymond and David and hope that they can help Rhian.
This is a photo of Rhian taken last August.
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david hobbs
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We like new posts and opinions on anything that you may want to talk about.
We also love to help and assist in any way we can.
We can be a bit blunt but you will get used to us.
Welcome
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Raymond
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How can you bring a room down???
Oh hang on a minute. Are we talking about you-know-who?
Oh well Rhian, if you were kicked out of that forum, take it as a compliment.
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swanlady
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| Quote: | How can you bring a room down???
Oh hang on a minute. Are we talking about you-know-who?
Oh well Rhian, if you were kicked out of that forum, take it as a compliment. |
You are very clever Raymond or you must be psychic 
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rhian
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Hi there again i just would like to explaine why i feel the way i do. I was bored this one day at my house being alone and my partner being in the R.A.F and not seen him much and him being away i went to a chat site and signed up to go to classes, i have always been interested in pyschic and spiritualism and always wondered what it was like to connect with spirit so like i said i joined up to classes and then i eventually got to connect with spirit been able to read but little did i know what i was getting myself into and now i feel im suffering for what i did and i feel so silly and stupid of me for doing it i give anything to take away what i have done but there is no statement to say "do not try and become a medium if your scared" but like i said i was curious on how people "mediums" connect with spirit.
I have the most wonderful friend who is ceri aka swanlady she has helped me in lots of ways I met ceri on this site i went to so i dont kno what i would have done if i havent have met her i really dont. I do feel i'm constantly on her back by phoning her everytime i get affraid. I do respect the fact ceri has let me into her home and get to kno her and the family she has such a beautiful one. Thankyou ceri xxx
I kno i get spirit but try and ignore it but it gets the better of me and spirit starts poking and prodding at me and i dont kno what it wants and dont kno how to control them coming and going like as if theres no switch or door to keep them away. I dont even kno because i have opened a door to connect with spirit that i will never have my life back the way it was before i started classes. I cant sleep at night as spirit being around and touching me. I feel drained and exhusted I have got to a stage where i feel i cant cope anymore just simply dont kno what to do.
thanks x
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Kas
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| rhian wrote: | Hi there again i just would like to explaine why i feel the way i do. I was bored this one day at my house being alone and my partner being in the R.A.F and not seen him much and him being away i went to a chat site and signed up to go to classes, i have always been interested in pyschic and spiritualism and always wondered what it was like to connect with spirit so like i said i joined up to classes and then i eventually got to connect with spirit been able to read but little did i know what i was getting myself into and now i feel im suffering for what i did and i feel so silly and stupid of me for doing it i give anything to take away what i have done but there is no statement to say "do not try and become a medium if your scared" but like i said i was curious on how people "mediums" connect with spirit.
I have the most wonderful friend who is ceri aka swanlady she has helped me in lots of ways I met ceri on this site i went to so i dont kno what i would have done if i havent have met her i really dont. I do feel i'm constantly on her back by phoning her everytime i get affraid. I do respect the fact ceri has let me into her home and get to kno her and the family she has such a beautiful one. Thankyou ceri xxx
I kno i get spirit but try and ignore it but it gets the better of me and spirit starts poking and prodding at me and i dont kno what it wants and dont kno how to control them coming and going like as if theres no switch or door to keep them away. I dont even kno because i have opened a door to connect with spirit that i will never have my life back the way it was before i started classes. I cant sleep at night as spirit being around and touching me. I feel drained and exhusted I have got to a stage where i feel i cant cope anymore just simply dont kno what to do.
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Hi rhian
Nice to meet you.
I'll try to give you some advice from my point of view.
Others may not agree and have a different approach. There's nothing wrong with that, maybe having a few options to try might suit you better.
You see we all come from slightly different perspectives on here. That's why the forum works so well.
From reading your brief post the first thing that struck me is that your being very negative. I don't mean that as a criticism. What I mean is you are putting yourself in the position of defending yourself.
Your putting yourself in a negative stance so to speak.
You need to understand and to learn how to take control.
Once you can do this, you will not open yourself up to things that you don't want to.
Be positive and in charge.
I get scared from time to time. All I do is say to myself "No". I puff my chest out if you like. I'm in control, i'm not letting anything happen.
Having that simple belief in my mind that nothing can hurt me and I am more powerful than anything out there has served me well on many ocassion.
There is a method however that you can try.
It's called the "Arena" method.
When you have some quiet time, get yourself comfortable. Nice and quiet.
Picture the corners of the room you are in. In your mind create a cube. A room if your like. Put yourself inside of the cube.
Have a walk around it.
This is your arena. A safe place.
Nothing can get in unless you allow it.
You can make your arena as basic or elaborate as you like. Have doors and windows if you like. But the important thing to do is to practice going into it.
Once you feel comfortable and safe then you can start to use it when you feel threatened and want something to stop.
You can use a trigger too. For instance saying to yourself the word "Arena" three times everytime you use it.
Then if you want something to stop quickly.
You just simply say your trigger words.
As I said this is probably one of many suggestions you will receive on here.
It's important that you do what you feel is best for you.
But you must learn to be more positive and more in control of these situations.
You have it within you. Unleash that warrior inside you.
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rhian
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nice to meet you too kas.
Thankyou for your input yes i do agree with you there i most probley am being negative and not knowing it. I understand what your saying and yes all i can do is try different methods and see what the outcome is.
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Kas
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| rhian wrote: | nice to meet you too kas.
Thankyou for your input yes i do agree with you there i most probley am being negative and not knowing it. I understand what your saying and yes all i can do is try different methods and see what the outcome is. |
No problem. You'll be fine i'm sure.
It probably doesn't help that your spending so much time away from your husband. What I mean is you have too much time to yourself, and to think about it.
I'm the same, i'm out of work at the moment. If I keep myself busy decorating or something then i'm fine. If I have nothing to do all day I start to dwell on things and get myself down.
My wife Mel says i'm a nightnare to come home to when i've had nothing to do all day. A right grumpy git! Lol
What does your husband do in the RAF, anything exciting?
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rhian
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Yeah i could totally agree with you there kas , when i was living back home thats when i was on my own i wasn't married then my husband was in single accommodation so yes i was by myself and was doing a lot of thinking and wondering and then we got married, and now we live together but when i was on my own my husband was going to Falklands and afghan, he is a driver in the RAF so he transports equipment back and forth and occasionally goes away for a few months which i hate.
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Kas
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Did he/Does he drive Land Rovers by any chance?
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rhian
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yes he does drive landrovers.
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david hobbs
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Rhian
You just made a new best friend 
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rhian
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lol why is that then david?
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Raymond
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Hello Rhian,
For totally selfish reasons I am so glad you posted your story here. I've been recently talking about how it's not a good idea to keep going over negative things that happen to you.
If it is a negative spirit around then by keeping on talking about you are feeding it, if it isn't one then by keeping on you are just reinforcing it in your own mind.
Anyway, that said, let's sort you out.
I totally agree with what Kas has said. Yo need to be firm. You wouldn't stand for this crap from an alive person so why should you take from a dead one?
Next time this thing tugs at your bed sheets jump up and shout at it to either do something more impressive or f*ck off!
No seriously, sometimes confronting an unwanted spirit in such an aggressive way can be one of the most effective ways of getting rid of them.
YOU are in charge of your life and house - nobody else - dead or alive.
I get from your picture that you are a natural born worrier. That's not good. Worry is one of the most powerful negative emotions we have. It wouldn't be very difficult for something unpleasant to feed off that.
With your permission (and only with your permission) I'd like to do two things.
I'd like to print off a copy of your picture and get to work on it.
Firstly I will a 'distance clearing' if there is something around you it will get rid of it, if there isn't something around you then no harm will be done.
Secondly I want to work on your picture to try and help make you a little braver. I'm sensing that the root of a lot of why you feel like you do is a bit of lack of self-worth, which I find bizarre because you are beautiful woman who should have the world at her feet.
I'll say it myself but the spell I made to help someone be strong and have control worked a bloody marvel the first time I used it (Jessica from SOS - anybody who knows her) so I'd like to use it again for you.
Like I said though, I won't do a thing unless you say so. Have a think.
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david hobbs
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| rhian wrote: | | lol why is that then david? |
Well lets just say that If Kas could take a landrover to bed at night
instead of his Teddy, he would.
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rhian
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oh hi there raymond i was glad and hoping that you read my post and that you are offering me your help and yes please i would like your wonderful help so much and yes you have my permission to print off my picture and whatever else you need or want and thankyou so much xxx
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Raymond
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Ok, will do.
I'd appreciate if you didn't speak about what I will be doing for a little while - even with Swanny.
Talking about spellwork can be damaging. It's like constantly turning a torch on and off to check the batteries are still working, each time you wear them down a little more.
When things settle down we'll talk then, ok?
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Kas
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| david hobbs wrote: | | rhian wrote: | | lol why is that then david? |
Well lets just say that If Kas could take a landrover to bed at night
instead of his Teddy, he would. |
You fool! 
Poor baby is out there freezing. 
Stick around rhian, you may get the feeling i'm involved with a military fort. And the odd vehicle.
We have a nice aviation museum too if you and husband are ever this way.
Your husband will probably appreciate this more.
She's from the first Gulf war.
Your right Dave, Mel does get the hump when I bring her to bed.
Raymond, we actually agree on something? I hope the bathing thread has nothing to do with your reply
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Raymond
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I think we agree on more than you realise.
I'd be happy to share a bath with you any day Kas.
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rhian
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yes no problems raymond will keep it hush hush! and thanks again just let me kno when times up.
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swanlady
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| Quote: | I'd appreciate if you didn't speak about what I will be doing for a little while - even with Swanny.
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No worries on that score Raymond.
Rhian is desperate for it to be gone.
And i want Rhian to find peace in her life once again.
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rhian
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Oh and kas yep deffo sticking around lol i just showed my hubby your baby and he said that one is older than the ones they drive now and yeah he is interested you will have to let us kno your wear abouts haha!
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rhian
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Oh deffinetly ceri i so do i am so grateful trust me.
yeah and how the bloody hell do i get me picture up on here? looking a bit bare ere come on ceri how do you do it?
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swanlady
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| Quote: | | yeah and how the bloody hell do i get me picture up on here? looking a bit bare ere come on ceri how do you do it? |
Knew she would settle right in here
Don,t ask meRhian. Kas or Bravo done mine for me
Ask Kas if he,ll put an avatar up for you.
KASSSSSS, OH kASSSSSS. you there?
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Raymond
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Your picture is already here. As a Bride on the first page.
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swanlady
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| Quote: | | Your picture is already here. As a Bride on the first page. |
She,s on about her avatar at the side by her name Raymond.
Can you put one on for her please?
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Raymond
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I had enough trouble with my own. It has to be under a certain size.
You have to go to Profile
Upload Avatar
Browse
(Choose a picture)
Submit
It will let you know if it's the right size.
I had to try about 20 before I found one that would fit.
Still, that's always been my problem,...
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rhian
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oh thankyou ceri yes please was gonna put my avatar on here but my picture of me not a charcter. lol maybe my pixel's are too big to upload.
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Kas
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| swanlady wrote: | | Quote: | | yeah and how the bloody hell do i get me picture up on here? looking a bit bare ere come on ceri how do you do it? |
Knew she would settle right in here
Don,t ask meRhian. Kas or Bravo done mine for me
Ask Kas if he,ll put an avatar up for you.
KASSSSSS, OH kASSSSSS. you there? |
The wedding pic can't be made into an avatar i'm afraid.
Pm me something else and i'll try to turn it into an avatar
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rhian
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hokey cokey i sent a pm.
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evergreen
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Welcome to the forum Rhian
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GenieDi
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Welcome Rhian, hope you get the help you need, looks like they are certainly on the case for you.
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swanlady
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Thank you Raymond for taking Rhian seriously with the problem she has with whats going on around her.
She was,nt taken seriously at the site we were on the last time this happened to her.
I left the room chattng to her to keep her occupied while i drove to her home, and by the time i got to her home, she was hysterical and in a middle of having an argument with the people in the room, as she felt they were laughing at her.
I did walk around the house when i got there and went upstairs, where i found Jordan, rhians son having a convesation with fresh air.
I asked him who he was talking to and he said the man.
I then felt a person who was,nt there brush pass me in the doorway to rhians bedroom.
I brought Rhian home with me that night, as i felt a negative energy from the spirit.
Things tend to calm down, but never goes away completely.
The poor girl is beside herself.
Thats why i felt it best if Rhian came here, as i felt she would be taken seriously.
So thank you Raymond for helping a very dear friend of mine.
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wackyjacky
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Hey Rhian, long time no read... welcome to GHE.. see ya on the boards!!
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Raymond
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Swanny, without mentioning the name of that site again, I'm not surprised Rhian found a difficult time over there.
It's part of the same reason why I had such a tough time while I was a member.
Many of the members of that site just cannot comprehend the idea of spirit being bad.
Most of them are so caught up with their ideas of "love and light" and "spirit is pure love" and al that nonsense that they just cannot understand just how devistating it can be when spirit is anything but love.
I have seen many times the negative side of spirit. I've seen it break up families and take people literally to the brink of insanity.
That's why whenever people tell me they are having problems with spirit I always take them seriously.
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Waffle King
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Hello :D *waves politely and returns to knitting*
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Lilly
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Hiya Rhian, nice to see you here,perhaps we can get you the help you need here,and I do feel a certain person by the initial 'J' had a lot to do with things? I'll say no more you know what I mean,
One other thing , be assured that many of the best mediums past and present,were as scared and worried about spirit as you are when they first had contact.
When you get to be in control,you will feel more comfortable,I wish I lived nearer to you!!
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rhian
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Hi there evergreen,genie,wackyjacky and lily and thank you for the welcomes i am just so glad and thankful for being here and for ceri to bring me here to this forum and all the help and advice i receive it's just i cant imagine what i would have done if i had non of this. I am now need to try and make sure things don't get the better of me.
Raymond i couldn't thank you enough for offering your help and actually helping me as within myself i want to be brave with everything what goes on around me and in my life than from trying to be brave is a different story. I appreciate what you have done for me thank you.
Ceri? well you know girl if i could give you the world i would but i cant lol as you would be bossing us all around, you know how much i appreciate everything that you do for me and have done i couldn't explain it anymore you know i love you and i give anything i can to make up for what you have done for me i am just so grateful. xx
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Kas
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Have you tried the things I suggested Rhian?
Self help is the best method.
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rhian
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I havent yet Kas, i am gonna look up what you suggested to me and i am gonna try it tonight. It's just that i been in desperate need for help and just felt as thou it wont go unless "physically" moved you can say, i am just really hoping this will get sorted for me.
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Kas
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You will only change things yourself Rhian.
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rhian
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I understand kas. I thought me doing these methods was making sure spirit cant communicate with me in anyway what so ever i.e tugging at blankets,poking and prodding me making noises waking me up ect. I kno it's supose to stop me feeling but it dont help if i'm doing that and still being scared and afraid coz spirit hasnt gone. Its like a ficious circle lol have i spelt that right?
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