Kas
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PremonitionsI in no way consider myself to be psychic, although some have argued against this it is still my view.
Many, many years ago i had a dream. Well to be honest it was so long ago i can't really remember if it was a dream or a feeling.
It was that some day i would die in a car crash. I would be a passenger and the car would be a black sports car.I have a strong feeling that the car was an AC Cobra.
Unbeknown to me one of my best friends had bought one recently. Top of the range, big, black, shiney and very fast. Unfortunately Cobra's have a nasty habit of crashing as they are hard to control. My friend also has a habit of driving fast and spectacularly crashing cars. He just can't drive slowly.
Thing is he's going to be my best man at the wedding. He will almost be certainly driving me to the wedding in the Cobra.
Of course i want to arrive in style and i don't want to let a feeling to ruin the chances of arriving in something nice but to be honest i'm starting to get nervous of getting in the car.
What would you do?
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david hobbs
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I would tell my friend that I am taking the bus.
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Mel S
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Thankyou David.. I feel the same. Glad its not just me being twitchy and paranoid.
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evergreen
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Totally agree go with your gut and go with Mel !!!! and marriage should be a breeze 
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Raymond
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I can see the sense in what everyone is saying but I can also see the reasoning behind why you want to arrive in style and also you don't want to let your friend down by refusing his kind offer of a lift.
If he's not the kind of person that you can talk to about "gut feelings" then just say to him that you're a bit nervous because of the wedding and you don't want him driving like a lunatic that will just make you more flustered.
Leave the house with plenty of time to spare (the Groom should arrive early anyway) and tell him to keep below 30mph.
If he insists on driving like a boy racer then just keep reminding him to slow down, if he ignores you then just get out of the car.
If he's a good friend he should respect your wishes.
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Kas
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| Raymond wrote: | I can see the sense in what everyone is saying but I can also see the reasoning behind why you want to arrive in style and also you don't want to let your friend down by refusing his kind offer of a lift.
If he's not the kind of person that you can talk to about "gut feelings" then just say to him that you're a bit nervous because of the wedding and you don't want him driving like a lunatic that will just make you more flustered.
Leave the house with plenty of time to spare (the Groom should arrive early anyway) and tell him to keep below 30mph.
If he insists on driving like a boy racer then just keep reminding him to slow down, if he ignores you then just get out of the car.
If he's a good friend he should respect your wishes. |
Yes thats how i feel, i don't like letting fear get the better of me.
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Raymond
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That's right and premonitions aren't always right. All my life I have been absolutely convinced that I would die at 35, so you can imagine the sigh of relief last month when I turned 36. 
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Mel S
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hmmm.. Not convinced Im afraid folks. Think I'd go mad if he even risked his chances, to be honest. I turned the table round last night and asked Kas what he would do if I had a premonition of dying in a pretty rare type of car.. what would he do if I then told him I was going to arrive at the wedding in one.
Needless to say.... he'd rather I walked .. lol
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david hobbs
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What is the point of having an inner voice if you ignore it.
It could simply be that as your life is changing for ever then it is a kind of symbolic death, and transformation.
To be a bit old fashioned, the wedding day is for the bride, and her happines is paramount, and so it should be. It is her day and her day only.
Everyone else is decorative.
Said too much.
Sorry.
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evergreen
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I agree David you haven't said too much at all- I dont' think anything will happen to Kas but peace of mind should be what is strived for expecially on days such as your wedding day.... so when is the big day
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